7 Qualities Of A Good Wife

December 13th, 2008 / 6 Comments » / by dya

7 Qualities Of A Good Wife

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By: dya

Have a look at these qualities of a good wife. Its good to know, better to remind ourselves everyday and the best is to practice. I believe, this is the key of happiness :)

7) Nag* free. Ladies, a good wife is going to be nag free. Nagging is an ineffective method of trying to get your husband to perform a thing for you. Trust me ladies, it doesn’t work and mostly it will have the opposite of its intended affect.

6) Supportive. What does it mean to be supportive? Do you belittle your man or do you help him to feel good about himself, his job, activities? Your husband will be much more respectful of you if you support him. Even when you don’t agree with him, respectfully let him know you don’t agree – then support him anyway. Otherwise, if he has difficulties, he’ll feel as though you’re adding to his troubles.

5) Build up your man. Ladies, there’s no quicker way to build anger in your man than to criticize him – especially in front of others. On the other hand, try complementing your husband in front of other people. Your husband will glow with admiration toward you and you’ll feel his appreciation.

4) Keep him happy in the bedroom. Unfortunately, many women underestimate the importance of keeping her man’s needs met. Often this comes from the basic differences in women and men. For men, sexual desire is much like physical hunger and if it’s not fed properly – the relationship will struggle. Women must look to understand the needs of the man from his perspective not hers.

3) Respect. A good wife will try to treat her man with respect. How? Much of learning how to be respectful toward your husband has to do with the way you talk to him. The old phrase “It’s not so much what you say but how you say it” should be practiced. This doesn’t mean you need to be careful what you say to your husband, just be respectful in the way you say it.

2) Communicate. A good wife will seek to discover what’s on her mind and find a way to express herself to her husband. Often, men and women will make a joint decision – while the man thinks she’s in agreement with him, but only to discover later that she thought the decision was a bad idea.

1) Be pleasant. Work to be pleasant toward your husband. Don’t make people around you feel bad just because you’ve had a hard day. Good things will come from being pleasant. It’s a decision – just decide to be pleasant. But if you can’t be pleasant, make a decision not to bring him down with you.

*Nag - Someone (especially a woman) who annoys people by constantly finding fault.

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Differences Between Men and Women

September 14th, 2008 / 3 Comments » / by jeje

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN.

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Most of peoples hard to understand their partner especially for a new couple. Women seem to push her men to understand his feelings but the men just ignore her and continue doing whats in his head. Its hard to understand your partner as long as you keep in mind that your partner do not understand yourself. The main key to understand your partner is, your partner is opposite in behavioral of yourself. Yes, that’s the way God created us. The following table summarize some of the differences:

Men

Women

Grasp a situation as a whole and think globally

Satisfaction: Good career and prosperity.

Men are builders and creators. They take risks and experiment.

Men are more satisfied with their own performance.So don’t critic men directly.

Men are more independent in their thoughts and actions.

Men are hard share their feelings.

Men use different type of language. They tell about themselves indirectly.

Men need support from their partner even though they never tell it.

Women think locally, relying on details.

Satisfaction: Happy family and nice kids.

Women select the most valuable knowledge and pass it over to the next generation.

Women tend to criticize themselves sometimes their partner too.

Women are more willing to follow the ideas suggested by others.

Women share their feeling to almost anyone.

Women tells whatever they want and whatever they feel directly.

Women need more attention and care from their men.

End of Part I

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